Monday, January 24, 2011

THE LONG AND WINDING ROAD

The road is long, eleven hundred and forty-five miles down and eleven hundred and forty-five miles back. There are times the miles seem to crawl by slower than a slimy snail drunk on molasses crawlin' up an ice hill in January. I knew the trip would be a difficult one but this Ozark Farm Chick had no clue how stressful it would be. We have traveled this road many times before but this time the trip to Brownsville, Texas was for my Daddy's memorial service. It would be the last goodbye and a time for closure.
I was lookin' forward to leavin' the frigid temperatures behind but dang, if we didn't hit ice in Temple, Texas and the the temps in Brownsville were colder than a bankers heart on foreclosure day at the widow's and orphan's home. I didn't expect the shingles to come along and play tag over the Grand Tetons on the second day of the trip. I'd rather jump barefoot off a six foot ladder into a five gallon bucket full of porcupines than to speak in front of a room full of adults but Mom requested me to offer up a tribute for my Daddy . Yep, I sucked it up, swallowed my fear, shoved down my emotions and presented it just for my sweet Mama. I had this Norman Rockwell vision of family time togetherness but the days were full and crazier than a run over dog. I have to praise my children for jumpin' in to do whatever it took to support my Mama and contribute to the beautiful service.
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Dad himself was a giver and would of been so proud of the generations he helped to create. He sure was delighted to be a grandpa himself to my two in the photo above. Dad was there to pick me up when I fell. He's the one who always made sure I had 'enough' money. He's the one who brought a truck filled with ten bred heifers to help stock the Ponderosa. The one to put Geek Son in his first saddle. The man who told me with conviction that Social Butterfly would survive her heart surgeries and grow up someday to make me a grandmother. What can I say? The man knew his stuff!!! I just pray that I can offer love and support to my family in a way that would make my Daddy's eyes light up and plant that big old ear to ear grin of his face.



Dad was honored with a twenty-one gun salute and the most beautiful flag ceremony I have ever witnessed. A slide show of Dad's life was presented throughout the service. The family released red, white, and blue star balloons were soared into the heavens and a wonderful meal was shared with dear friends and family. Just like our journey, life is like a long and winding road. This was one of the last Beatles song that Paul McCartney wrote back in 1969. Paul actually had Ray Charles in mind as he wrote the words but the road didn't go there. Just as I am elated to be back home, I know in my heart my Daddy is too, 'cause he too has traveled "The Long And Winding Road."

124 comments:

  1. I'm sorry for your loss. What wonderful memories you have and what a wonderful legacy he left in you, and all of yours!
    Blessings, Prayers and thoughts...

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  2. Nezzy,
    Your Daddy would be so proud!
    What an amazing tribute you have created for him!
    I just loved the video. So touching and the pics really show a life well lived!
    I am so sorry you had to get the shingles and bad weather to boot!
    Sometimes life throws us a lot of lemons all at once.
    Hang in there, your a tough gal!
    Hugs Girlfriend,
    Cindy

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  3. I am sorry for your loss. This is a beautiful memorial to him.

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  4. What a wonderful tribute to your Daddy! Love that song and I WAS and always WILL be "Daddy's Girl"! WOW, a 21 gun salute... awesome! Sounds like he was a wonderful Daddy!

    I know it was a sad time but I am proud of you for speaking! I spoke at my Daddy's funeral and wouldn't take a million dollars for doing it! Have a blessed day my friend! BIG HUGS!

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  5. Oh Nezzy, what a wonderful tribute to your daddy. May all the love that you shared heal your broken heart. I loved your slide show. What a remarkable man and his life looked like he lived it 100%. You can't ask for more than that and being loved as much as he was- you know he took it all with him.
    Prayers for you and your mama. God bless her heart.
    Hugs- Tete

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  6. I too, am sorry for your loss. You are a strong woman to have spoken at your Dad's service. This is the first time I've visited you and am so glad I did. I lost my very special Mom 4 years ago. You don't get over it, you get through it.

    I would give you a hug too.

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  7. What a beautiful tribute to a wonderful man. I think military rights are so humbling.
    I hope that your wounds will heal and that you will have comfort that you need.

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  8. I'm sorry for the loss of your beloved Daddy, but you gave a beautiful tribute to him. God bless

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  9. God certainly blessed you with a wonderful dad and also a wonderful family.

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  10. What a wonderful tribute to your Dad's memory. I am sure you did him proud and that he would have loved hearing it himself. Gun Salutes always just get to my heart. I was from the Viet Nam era of school friends and of course some of them were lost and those military services are so inspiring and heart felt.Take care my friend and God Bless. And try to stay warm girl. It is a freezer here for certain.

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  11. what a wonderful tribute to your dad this post is. I did the same thing at my dad's service but my mother had passed on years before. God bless you in this time of grieving.

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  12. This made me cry and gave me the goose bumps...what a great tribute to your Dad...he's left behind a legacy that you will definetly pass down to your children and your children's children...I too, hope to leave such a good legacy behind when I leave this earth...very cool that you spoke at the service...I am sure he enjoyed it very much..glad you made it home safely and I pray that you will have a time to rest after all of that. Again, I am sorry for your loss. XX

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  13. What a wonderful life and a touching tribute to a man you will never forget. So sorry for your loss.

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  14. Oh Nezzy Sweetie...
    Your Daddy was just flitting around you all like a June bug on a light bulb, sticking to each word you spoke. I know he was over the top thrilled. You lit up his life each and every day. He loved you sweetie, and he isn't gone, he remains in your heart. The memories you share and have shared with your kids and grands makes him live even longer. Yes you my sweet friend are 1 in a million.

    I have enjoyed you and your cow patties since the day you blogged right into the core of my very HEART. You touch people in ways I can't even imagine. You are very gifted sweet one and I thank God for you every day.

    What a beautiful, loving, giving tribute to your sweet Daddy. Many hugs to you sweet one. Many, many hugs and SO much love, Sherry

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  15. Nezzie - what a wonderful tribute to your father. So sorry for your loss. What wonderful memories you carry in your heart. Hugs, jo

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  16. Oh, Nezzy1 What a wonderful tribute to your daddy! Sounds like he was a wonderful man and bless your heart that you spoke! I know had to be hard but God got you through! Even though my heart breaks for you, you have managed to make me giggle a bit with your wonderful talent of writing.
    Blessings,
    shelia ;)

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  17. Thank you for sharing your story. I knew this happened but you write it so well, very touching!
    xoxo
    SC

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  18. So very sorry for the loss of your Dad. But, this is a wonderful tribute to him.

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  19. That is a touching and wonderful tribute to your dad. He must have been a great father to have raised such a lovely and caring daughter. He would be so very proud of you for writing this.

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  20. Hi Nezzy, I enjoyed this beautiful tribute/video to your daddy. I know he's glad to be Home and I know you made him very proud. My deepest sympathy in your loss. The grief gets better with time, but like me, you'll always be daddy's girl. Love ya,

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  21. Nezzy ~ I had tears from your email & now I well up from this share also. What a wonderful daughter you are, your Father is smiling down upon you. May he rest in peace with JEsus' hand holding closely his soul.

    Have a beauatiful eve ~
    TTFN ~
    Hugs, Marydon

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  22. I'm so sorry for your loss. Such a beautiful tribute to your father. I'm sure he's looking down on you and smiling. Big hugs to you.

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  23. What a beautiful post! Thanks for sharing this man's life with us. :)

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  24. I am sorry for your loss Nezzy! Your dad would be proud of the touching tribute.

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  25. I also am so sorry for your loss, but it was wonderful of you to gather your courage and pay him homage. He sounds like he was a truly happy and blessed man. He sure seemed to raise a good daughter.

    When I have been called upon to honor a loved one, I do what you did: just offer it up to the heavens above and know it will be good. My son also had one of those gun salutes and I found it very moving.

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  26. Deepest sympathy on your loss. This post was very moving.

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  27. I know all of these comments are going to tear ya up, so I'll just say, "Love you, sweetie." I'm here if you need anything.
    Jules @ Trying To Get Over The Rainbow

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  28. Nothing quite like the bond between a father and a daughter. You're fortunate to have such wonderful memories, Nezzy. I still miss my own dad and he's been gone for 14 years.
    What a warm and inspiring collection of memories in your slide show. Thank you for sharing it with us.
    Fondly,
    Joanne

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  29. You truly do have my heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your father. It's not easy at all to say good bye to those we love, but it does sound like your family helped you. The wonderful thing is that at the end of the journey there is a place where someday we'll meet again. Lots of Love and Hugs!

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  30. What a beautiful-love filled tribute to your sweet dad. I know you love him, depended on him and miss him.

    Of course you can offer love to your family to make him grin. You are solid love-through and through.

    Lot's of prayers for and love to you.

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  31. Nezzy: I am sorry for the loss of your dad. I enjoyed the slideshow and seeing him enjoy the years and his family.

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  32. Nezzy I am so sorry. You are so proud of him and I'm sure he was of you. So good that you have happy memories.

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  33. I know his eyes are shining with pride and his face covered with that smile you will never forget.

    Bless you, you are your father's child.

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  34. Bless your heart,I know how it feels to be a daddy's girl dealing with his death.That was the most precious video I've seen and wow what a tribute to your dad,good job.
    I'm sure he's smiling down on you today. Cherish your memories and time will heal !!
    Bless you.

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  35. So sorry; so, so sorry. It happens to us all, but losing a parent is so difficult. No words to describe it, really. What a wonderful way to honor your dad's life; the words you've written here will be cherished.

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  36. Oh, Nezzie, what a lot you are still going theough. I went through this when my mom died awhile ago, it seems that when it really hits is after everything is all over, all the cards open and put away, all the food eaten and well wishers gone. Then it kind of sinks in. What a wonderful slide show, full of such good memories. I never heard that song before, but it sure is cute! You captured a fantastic picture of that salute, you can see the smoke coming our of the guns!

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  37. What a beautiful tribute to your Dad, Nezzie. The 21 gun salute gave me goose bumps. Hugs to you.

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  38. I am so glad you wrote this, Nezzy, and that you shared the video. I know it took some time for you to be ready to write about this loss and I hope you got some comfort from sharing your wonderful Daddy with us. Your Daddy and his girl both have a lot to be proud of.

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  39. I loved watching these memories of you and your dad. He seems like a great guy, and I'm glad you were able to honor him at the funeral. I'll be he loved that!

    Hugs and prayers to all of you.

    =)

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  40. Tears as I read your post...and I am ALWAYS leaving you laughing! This is a wonderful tribute to him, Nezzy, and the video is great! I'm sure speaking was so hard, but I'm equally sure it was beautiful. You are an amazing gal and that had to come from terrific parents. I'm sure you'll miss him the rest of your life like I do my parents, but I'm equally sure you'll always have the best of him in your heart! Many hugs from Ohio...Donna

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  41. You have such a creative way of writing and making me feel just like I am in the story --- this is great... wonderful job! I love the pictures in the video - best wishes Nezzy. Your Daddy raised a wonderful person - YOU! Keep on writing to inspire all of us :)

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  42. Be sure, Nezzy, your Dad has watched the memorial from above and felt proud of his daughter's great tribute to him.

    The pictures, the slideshow displaying moments of his rich life, and your very special writing style, make this post a real dramatic 'gem'.

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  43. Beautiful tribute to an obviously much loved man. We can't reach out and touch our dads anymore but they are always close by in our minds, hearts and the faces of their kin.

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  44. What a lovely tribute. Your dad sounds like he was an amazing man!! My thoughts are with you.

    Blessings,
    Jill

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  45. I am so sorry for your loss.... this is a wonderful tribute to your dad.

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  46. Oh Nezzy, I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute to your dad. I know how stressful that trip can be and my heart goes out to you. I am sure he is grinning from ear to ear. My prayers are with you.

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  47. Nezzy, what an amazing tribute to your daddy. I'm sure he's smilin' down on you from heaven. What a blessing to have such wonderful memories of him. Thank you for sharing them with us!

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  48. Hugs to you, sweet Nezzy. It sounds like your daddy was the most awesome of men. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

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  49. Nezzy, you have writtten and I'm sure you spoke a wonderful tribute to your father! I'm sure your dad must be so proud of his little girl and the wonderful woman she has become! My thoughts are with you! Hugs, Traci

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  50. Bless you my friend. I am proud to say that I was a "Daddy's girl" and darn proud of it.
    I know it is hard for you now and the pain is tough, but YOU are one tough country gal and you will get through this.

    Love you!!

    Melinda

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  51. Hi Nezzy, Not the shingles again...and at a time like this too..I suppose it was the stress knowing you had to make the trip south and be part of the service. I do send you my heartfelt condolences..I so enjoyed the video with all the old photos. Thank you for sharing them and your sweet memories of you Daddy. Now I am sending you a big ol hug:)

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  52. What a moving and tender tribute. Once again, I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  53. Nezzy,
    This is a lovely tribute to your father. I am truly holding you in hugs and prayers and you begin your journey down this path.

    Having been there, knowing the journey is different for each person, Just know you have a friend over here that is thinking of you and sending love.

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  54. What a beautiful tribute, told by a wonderful lady...Had to read it twice...so sorry for your loss....Life is a Long and Winding Road...A sweet, sweet post...

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  55. Oh dearest Nezzy, you are treat, no matter what the occasion. I LOVE YOU! Sheesh, can I say that to a stranger? But your heart, your words, your pains, we all know them...for you speak so eloquently of things that touch us all. Have a magnificent day beautiful Nezzy!

    Anita

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  56. Just beautiful. All of it. What a truly special man to create such a truly special family. I'm so sorry for your loss. So happy you had him!
    (((hugs)))
    Leslie

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  57. Good Morning Nezzy. I am so sorry about your Dad. What a beautiful tribute here for him. You have had a rough year. You been on my mind, we were in Springfield yesterday and I thought of you :) I am hoping 2011 finds things more peaceful for you, finds you shingle free and brings us all some great weather! Take Care Nezzy and lots a hugs!

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  58. The miles are unending when traveling to/from at times like that, aren't they.
    What a wonderful tribute. So sorry for your loss...thoughts are with you.

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  59. This is, without a doubt, one of the most beautiful tributes to a loved one I've read. What a wonderful father you had Nezzy, not something everyone can say.
    God bless you.
    Jane

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  60. I am so very sorry for your loss Nezzy. What wonderful memories you have of your father and what a wonderful legacy he left!

    (((HUGS)))

    sandie♥

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  61. I'm so sorry for your loss, Nezzy. (((hugs))) This post is a beautiful tribute to your dad. Life is a long and winding road...how true. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care.

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  62. You know that ear to ear grin you just spoke of? Well, your Daddy is grinning from "ear to ear!" Trust me on this!
    Love and hugs,
    Mona

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  63. smiles, beautiful tribute to a wonderful man...i know it was not easy speaking at his funeral but i know you did a great job...

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  64. I am sitting here sobbing - for you, for me, and for everyone else who has lost their daddy. What a wonderful tribute to your dear ol' dad.

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  65. Oh Nezzy-- What a beautiful, beautiful tribute to your father. My heart is smiling even though I'm sorry for your loss. You clearly have wonderful memories. Thanks for sharing them with us.
    xoxox jj

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  66. So sorry for your loss, Sweetie. Hopefully these virtual hugs wont hurt the Grand Tetons. And I hope it's ok to say "love ya bunches" (((((( + ))))))). Hang in there.

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  67. Nezzy,
    I'm so sorry to read about the loss of your dead Daddy. What a wondrous tribute was done for his services. And how fortunate for you that you were able to share so much of your adult life with him! My own Daddy passed away when I was just 22 years old and barely a new mother. There are many things in my life since then that I would have loved to share with him.

    Memories are the comfort we are left with to cherish. Hugs...

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  68. What a nice tribute to your dad. I am so sorry for your loss. The memorial service sounded very nice. Your dad left with you many wonderful memories to cherish. Thank you, for sharing this nice, giving man with us. Hugs

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  69. Nezzy, I'm so sad to learn of your loss. Your tribute to your Dad is beautiful. Those photos in the video were so great, and showed such a fun-loving, wonderful family. Without knowing your Dad, I can see from the video that his life was full. How brave of you to be able to speak at the service. Having read your words on your blog, I know your tribute at the service was a wonderful part of that service. I'm saying a prayer for you and your family as you go through the grieving process. laurie

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  70. Oh sweet Nezzy - there's no doubt in my mind that your Daddy wouldn't be the proudest EVER of you. What a beautiful post. I was praying so hard for you NOT to get those shingley things while you were traveling. I'm so sorry. So proud of you for doing a tribute for your Daddy and Mama!! And wow - amazing to hear about your daughter. Praying for you Nezzy!! Hugs and love and blessings galore to you.

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  71. What a beautiful tribute, Nezzy. I am sorry for your loss, but you have such wonderful, wonderful loving memories to fall back on. What a guy, your dad. :)
    XOXO
    - Margaret

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  72. Nezzy, I love love love reading about you and your dad! Thanks for sharing this...

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  73. Just seeing the woman you have become tells me so much about your dad. You were blessed to have him in your life. Speaking from your sweet heart here in you blog is a blessing for all of us too.

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  74. So very sorry for your loss, Nezzy!! However I am so glad that you have Great memories of your dad and that he was given such well deserved 'honors' and respect.. Beautiful tributes at the memorial service!!!!

    The video mad me cry and miss my own dad so much!! Thank you for sharing!!

    Hugs & Much Love sent your way!!!!
    Coreen xoxoxoxo

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  75. I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. What a wonderful video tribute! Obviously he was very special to you and you to him.

    Best,
    Bonnie

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  76. What a heartfelt and loving tribute you've offered in your Father's memory, Nezzy! This cannot have been easy knowing how painful it is to say goodbye to our loved ones and, especially, to our parents. It's a jarring realisation of our own mortality and, at the same time, the rocognition that those first, most important relationships are no longer there...to guide and support us in the way we've known for a lifetime of togetherness and sharing. May you continue to find great comfort in your store of wonderful memories.

    Hugs,

    Des xo

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  77. Nezzy, I enjoyed your writing style in this post. I am though so sorry for your loss. You dad sounds as though he was a great father to you. Thank you for coming by A Camp Host's Meanderings and leaving a message. I appreciate it! I hope you'll stop by again. I see that you have over 300 followers and a tremendous number of comments. What have you done to build your readership?

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  78. I come to offer my sincere regret for your loss Nezzy. It must have been a long long painful road.
    Your tribute to that special man is full of love and respect; I can feel it.
    Sorry it took me so long to come by;, computer problems.
    Sending you a warm hug from up north.
    Rita

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  79. So sorry for your loss. What a wonderful tribute to your Dad. I always enjoy your stops at my place.

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  80. I am so sorry about your dad. I know how that hurts a daddy's girl's heart..because I am one too. What a great video of his life, thanks for sharing it! I sure hope the shingles will go away quickly for you, they are awful. God be with and bless you...you will be with him again one day and in the mean time..watch and listen to feel him checking in on you cause he will. Love you, my friend. :D

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  81. What a wonderful tribute to your father! I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  82. Aw, Nezzy. I'm so jealous. I never had any relationship with my absentee father and I would have given anything for a father like yours. I'm sorry he's passed from this physical world, but I can't help believing he will never be far away from you.

    Big hugs, Jayne

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  83. I'm so sorry about the loss of your father. That was a lovely, moving tribute to him.

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  84. Oh Nezzy....what a beautiful tribute to your father. He sounds like a man I would of liked to have known.

    Sorry for your loss.

    Hugs,

    Jo

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  85. I know how difficult it had to be to say goodbye to you daddy. The video is beautiful, what a nice tribute to you father. What a handsome man he was. ((HUGS))

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  86. Perfect. Emotional, wistful, humorous, and uplifting. You took us down that long and winding road and right back up again.

    Nezzy, you coudn't have chosen a more perfect title for this tribute. I love the way you always tie your posts into songs from our youth. And thank you so much for sharing the video. It showed us all that your Daddy was a real person, not just words upon a page, but a real man, a real husband and father, and he had the biggest heart for his little girl.

    Hope the Grand Tetons are holding up in this weather and the shingles have seen their last days!

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  87. Good morning Nezzy dear,

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR KINDNESS...I know my slipper is around here somewhere! It is lost temporarily amongst the mess due to our addition to our home! It will emerge soon! THANK YOU! Anita

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  88. Thank you for your encouragement; your daddy's love was not wasted on you! You are a caring lady.

    This gives me heart for traveling to CA for my brother's memorial next weekend--3 planes each way.

    Love
    Jen

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  89. What a beautiful tribute to your daddy. Nezzy, he would've been so proud of you for speaking. He was probably grinning from ear to ear the whole time you were talking out there. You have such a "happy" way with words, so uplifting. And you paint such colorful images that I sometimes couldn't help but laugh out loud at your descriptions. =)

    Every time you stop by over at my blog, you just leave a swoosh of cheer. Blessings to you and yours, Ms. Nezzy!

    (Thank you also for the whoopingly sweet words over at Becky's for my interview! xoxo)

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  90. Oh my sweet friend. I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. Sounds like he was an amazing man, with an amazing life. Loved by many. Prayers for you and your family. And a big ol' hug coming to you!

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  91. I love this tribute to a great man. The man you were blessed to call Daddy. I know that you loved him very much, and he you.

    You spoke so beautifully of your love. I hope for that sort of love for all children. It is precious.

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  92. Hi, Nezzy~
    I'm so sorry for your loss! I really enjoyed watching the tribute...such great pictures. It looks like he was a wonderful man.
    I'm sure this must be a hard time for you. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.♥

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  93. Beautiful tribute - beautiful memories. Thanks for sharing all those great family photos.

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  94. Such precious reflections, Nezzy. Thank you for stopping by Junk to Joy. I will pray for you. Both of my parents went home in 2004. I miss them so very much, but am delighted to know that I will see them again in GLORY!!

    Big ol' hugs
    Becky

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  95. A great tribute to your Father! I pray that God will comfort you as you grieve the loss of you beloved Daddy.

    ~Ron

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  96. i'm sorry winter weather followed you to texas but am glad you had the time of closure.

    i canNOT believe you said the "v" word. :D i'll be looking for the coconut oil asap, for chloe and for myself.

    i checked ben's breathing several times this morning--he's never slept anywhere near that long before! dare i hope for a repeat?

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  97. I'm so sorry to hear about loosing your dad. I absolutely loved watching the video of his life. Especially the military pictures. What a legacy he left behind. Good for you for speaking. That would have been hard. I'm sure your mom was so happy that you did. Glad you got home safe and sound.

    Hugs,
    Jackie

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  98. Sorry, "losing", not "loosing". I hate typos!

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  99. I'm sure your Daddy knew what a wonderful daughter he had raised. I am so sorry for your loss and know you will miss him greatly, but isn't it wonderful that you have such sweet memories? Not everyone is blessed in that way.

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  100. beautiful tribute to your pop! you are well on your way to being the same for the next generation. prayers for your family.
    nikonsniper steve

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  101. Dear one sorry for your precious loss. ((((Nezzy)))) Thank you for sharing in pictures and words.

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  102. Hi dear sweet Nezzy..it is one of the hardest things in life to lose your Daddy...I'm sure he is with you still...Big Hug and Love coming your way..Dzintra

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  103. Hello Nezzy, I am so sorry for your loss but what a great tribute this post is. Thanks for sharing the video of his life with us, I really enjoyed it. Take care.

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  104. Nezzy,What a beautiful tribute to your Dad. His legacy lives on in you and your family and from meeting you through this blog he did a wonderful job of raising you! He seemed to have a zest for life that you do also and I bet he's smiling down at you every day. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and love for him with us.

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  105. Nez, I just read a comment of yours on Beth Dunn's blog...that you lost your diamond? Did you know homeowner's insurance will pay for that? Check into it and hopefuly you can replace it!! Keeping my fingers crossed for you...Donna

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  106. Hi Nezzy Sweetie...
    I had to pop over today and say hello. For some reason God was telling me to come, and I always follow his words. I hope you are okay and that everyone is fine in the family as well.

    Maybe you just needed a little old hello from Ms Country Wings herself. I see that Donna writes that you lost your diamond. Maybe that is why I was supposed to pop over. Well sweetie, whatever the reason, I am here with hugs and SO much love.

    Have a wonderful weekend honey. All my love, Sherry

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  107. What a sweet song. I'm afraid I'll be humming it all night long...

    Loved the pics :) (Those fish(?) were ENORMOUS!)

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  108. Oh sweet Nezzy....May God generously wrap His arms around you and bring you great comfort....I am truly sorry for the loss of your dad....
    I can tell that his service was beautiful...
    May God Bless you and bring you comfort in the days ahead...
    Hugs and more hugs,
    shug

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  109. Oh Nezzy, how could your daddy be anything but proud of who you have become? Everything about you oozes love and I'm not just saying that.

    I am truly sorry for your loss. I am happy you were blessed with such a wonderful father.

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  110. What a wonderful tribute!!! Judging from the photos, he lived a full life. He looked like a wonderful Dad & Grandpa. (((Hugs)))

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  111. Oh girl..... I am sorry for your loss of your Dad.. My emotions are all still so raw over losing Dad and then Mom just 72 days later.. Seems like an eternity ago and it has just been 4 months...... What a beautiful tribute to your Dad..... I guess it just does not matter our age..... Losing them is just too hard...... I too spoke at my Mom's service.. Did not think I could but I wanted to honor her..
    Glad you are home and once again facing some VERY cold weather tomorrow...... Cuddle up.. it is going to get cold outside.....

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  112. Nezzy,
    I am pleased that there still are some of us "Daddy's Girls" out there and while I know you will miss him, Honey, you "did him proud". Lovely post and the service must have been wonderful. Get out the photos, have a good ole cry and then be happy because he has gotten to "go home"--so you know all is well again with him! Amen and praise be that you had him for so long!
    Peri

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  113. Oh sweet friend I am so sorry for your loss. As a Daddy's girl too, I know how the loss hurts. I'll keep you in my prayers.

    A very sweet post!

    Hugs,
    Kat

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  114. So sorry for your loss.
    Hugs sent your way!

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  115. We're deeply and sincerely sorry for your loss.

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  116. I am so sorry for your loss. I know this is something we all must go thru but it doesn't make it any easier. My time is yet to come and when it does I hope I can be as strong as you!

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  117. ((hugs)),that was so beautiful. I too have lost my Daddy and know the hurt. Just remember,you are only apart for a little while.

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  118. condolences for the loss of your Dad. I was a Daddy's girl being the first and oldest child. He was from a very consdervative family by his childen loosen him up some. Having lived through and lucky to have employment during the Depression, he was very frugal. His main priorities were church, family and work. He put two of us through universities and set up one son in business. I don't regret his long life (920 but his quality of life was so bad and his mind at the end was poor. My last visit with him he did not know me. It did not upset me because I know he is with his only sweetheart Mother, now and both know all we tried to do, but sometimes failed to help them, especially him in their last years.

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  119. It sounds like you had a very good relationship with both your parents. So proud of you for showin' your mama the honor of standin' up to speak for your daddy. You did 'em both proud. God bless an' keep you all.

    Hugs,
    ~ Yaya

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  120. Dear Sweet Nezzy,
    I just found out about your precious Daddy and I am just holding you real tight.
    What pain you must feel even though we celebrate he is in Heaven.
    Such a beautiful tribute to your Daddy and I know he was very proud...You're an awesome lady with a strong spirit but even the strongest need a shoulder to cry on...my son is quite the humorist and is always making people laugh but when he laughs the loudest,is when he is under the most stress.
    love you Nezzy
    Simply Debbie

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  121. So sorry for your loss. Your post is a true testament of the man your father was. Sounds like a very touching memorial.

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  122. Even though you have over a hundred comments on this post, I have to tell you how much I enjoyed the video tribute. I know how much you will miss your Daddy, because I still miss mine after 12 years. There's nothing or nobody like our Daddy. Love to you.

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  123. I am sorry that I have not been around to visit. Life has a schedule of its own and I haven't figured out how to get my say in it.
    I want to add my condolences. No matter how "old" we are it is tough to lose a parent.
    A beautiful tribute.

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